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My girlfriend had paid sex with a Thai boy

I got a letter from one of my blog readers about my articles that girls pay for sex in Thailand. It no news that guys pay for sex but it’s a little known fact that actually girls do it as well. The person wanted me to publish he letter so I will, any names found in the story is mockups.

You can find the first article I wrote about the subject

Girls pay for sex in Thailand Part 1
Girls pay for sex in Thailand Part 2

”My girlfriend had paid sex with a Thai boy….!” Story By Alex

I am student from Germany and visited Thailand together with my girlfriend some
years ago for the first time. Pauline and I were together for three years and
she never cheated on me nor did I on her.

It was right during our first visit when I immediately recognized how much she
was fascinated by young athletic Thai guys. My Pauline is a good looking 21-year
old blond, a rather shy and conservative minded girl. She gets extremely jealous,
when I dare to only give a quick look to Thai girls or any other females.

However, probably women sexuality must be stronger than a conservative mind
set: During our second visit she admitted having sexual fantasies with Thai
guys, …which I already suspected for some times!


Once having ousted her fantasies and when she realized that she rather provoked
a depressed reaction on my side than an outrage, I was totally surprised how she
kept pushing on with her ”ideas” with great stubbornness…..to let them
finally become reality! Only later she admitted that she would not have had
dared to ever tell me again her fantasies, would I had reacted outraged. But my
reaction obviously boosted her self-confidence to try to let her fantasies come
somehow true and not to bury them under feelings of shame and guiltiness. From
this point onwards something changed between us: From day to day she showed more and more openly her interest in Thai men….obviously interpreting my
embarrassing helplessness to cope with the situation as silent consent (…which
is was not !). There was less and less hiding of her sexual desires and no
more false excuses for me….!

None of our friends nor I would have had believed that she would do nearly
anything to make love with a young Thai and even pay for sex! Not my Pauline,
but needless to say…after one week or so she was mentally ready to make an
approach to a young Thai…and yes:

In a nutshell: The two last nights of our holidays she spent with her young
‘tiger’ (…that is how she called her Thai boy later). It took me some time to
find the courage to put this report on the internet. I do not like to reveal all
the details, they are embarrassing and and I know, a lot of farang and Thai guys
out there will laugh at me: (…are you all so sure, what your farang girls
really think/want???)

Nonetheless, the story in brief: After she persuaded me to join her out to some
boys bars on the last days of our holidays and after she had long lasting
eye-contacts with Thai men, she finally became confident enough to roam these
places alone and tried an approach, what I should find out very soon.

It was two nights before we were scheduled to fly home, when she got a call on
her mobile, while we were spending the afternoon at our hotel pool at the Golden
Palace Hotel, off Sukhumwit Road in Bangkok. She became very exited…and after
a while asked me, if I can live with the fact that she intends to date a Thai
boy tonight, who she approached cautiously a night before. I was very jealous
but saw in her eyes how extremely exited she was to date the guy and we both
knew well …tonight it will be for paid sex. I asked her Pauline, are you
really sure…? She swallowed and nodded silently and saidAlex….it has nothing to do with you….it is simply…

She intended to take the Thai boy out for some romantic dinner and then come
back to the Golden Palace Hotel. She as well as I felt more secure to let it
happen in our place, rather then in some unknown seedy place. At the Golden
Palace Hotel we were sure that outward guests are all registered, when staying
in a guests room. On the one hand Pauline wanted to have her first payed sex
with a young Thai stranger in a secure, comfortable and familiar surrounding, on
the other hand, she wanted me to be safely excluded and not to spoil in any way
what was meant to be her perfect fuck. (Later she admitted that she was at this
time very insecure, if I, in the end, will not loose my temper and do something
stupid, respectively totally freak out in the hotel floors once after I have
realized that she is naked on the sheets with a Thai boy!). Strange enough,
instead of my burning jealousy, I simply assured her that I will respect her
privacy…probably instinctively sensing that my girlfriend was expecting me to
no longer be an obstacles to her very special sexual desire.


Before she went out that evening Pauline rented a second room on another floor
for the two remaining nights in Bangkok. Carefully as she was, without revealing
the room number to me.
Later that night we left together the Golden Palace Hotel, turned from Soi Nr.
1 onto the Sukhumvit Road. In a pharmacy near Siam Square my Pauline bought the
obligatory condoms. I thought desperately jealousy….for some lucky fucking
Thai penis We stepped out into the warm air of a busy Bangkok night. She
checked again nervously on her own room key, and the condoms in her
handbag. There was something like ohhh?…please understand! ? in her eyes when
she gave me a hasty kiss and then we separated. I saw her long blond hairs
slowly disappearing in the crowds. There goes my girl…, I thought,
to meet her date…. and I to follow her bitter-sweet advice?…to relax and watch a movie.

I sat frustrated in one of the cinema complexes at Siam Square and then spent a
poor night in an empty double-bed, not daring to imagine what happens behind of
one the doors on the upper floors.

This is already nearly the end of my report. I did not ask my girlfriend what
she paid for the service she received. (Pauline remained always silent on
that nights and I learned to respect her privacy).

But reading all the confusing and contradicting articles, news, etc. on Thai
men, let me stress the following:

No, I do –not know– what the thai guy did do her, how many times he lustfully
penetrated my girlfriend,

No, I do –not know– how many orgasms erupted her heated body when he was on top
of Pauline

No, I do –not know–,…her screams….her joy!

No,I do not know about the size of Thai penis and other qualities they have or
they do not have.

…and I am not interested in all that bla…bla…bla!

But whatever they did, Yes,I –know– that I never saw her so PLEASED and SATISIFIED on the next morning with that young Thai at the breakfast table.

They saw me approaching, looked at each other, then Pauline and the Thai gave
me a humiliating smile and invited me to join breakfast at their table. By
touching my girlfriend openly in front of me and watching her enjoying his hand
on her naked leg, the young Thai shattered the rest of my self-confidence. He
made it immediately absolutely clear that he will stay in the diver seat
for the rest of our holidays, having good sex and even been paid for it! There
was not much to say or to ask….all of us knew very well:

It happened all so fast that after the holiday I am still struggling
with the situation. Pauline made it clear to me, that there will be ‘follow ups’
with Thai boys in coming holydays….


For me is important to send this report to all those, who still believe that

1. Thai guys are not as good us other lovers, and to those,
2. who still believe that women sexuality is restricted to certain
pattern/types. Pauline overcame her shyness…and finally did only that openly,
what many girls, housewife’s, etc. might secretly think.

She is -NOT- a slut. That is why I accept her preferences and will stay
together with her, nevertheless which Thai boy she picks up next time (….and
she is looking very much forward to that evile since again!)



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29 Responses to “My girlfriend had paid sex with a Thai boy”

  1. getaholdonyou! #

    I feel full of pity for the poor loser, who gave up so easily on his girlfriend…
    Encouraging her lust indulgence, was definitely not an act of “respect of her privacy”, more like the last resort of a eunuch. Knowing he’ll never fulfill her needs, he condones unhealthy illusions, trying to salvage the last link to his past (his dreamed?) masculinity.
    Dont think I’m against women paying for sex, not at all, but not this way.

    Which loving wife would put her husband through the situation above?

    November 20, 2011 at 09:43
  2. aaa #

    If that happened to me I’d be balls deep in some Thai hooker within seconds, and I’d invite that slut of a girlfriend to watch as well.

    November 19, 2011 at 00:15
  3. abc #


    October 25, 2011 at 22:43
  4. Stefan #

    i wouldnt be so one-sided as the recent posters here, they all say hey rainer tell your g-f to go to hell and leave her… but that seems just onesided to me cuz a relationship is more than sex only and her behaviour doesnt mean she doesnt love him .. but i just wonder where rainer is and how the relationship goes ??? havent heard from him in a long time now ………..

    April 16, 2010 at 19:36
  5. Stefan #

    hey Rainer are you still here ? it’s me, stefan from switzerland…

    April 16, 2010 at 19:21
  6. If he did he for love it is very strange but if he did it for a sexual kick then i might understand it. I wont condemn anyone what they do in their bedroom.

    April 16, 2010 at 15:46
  7. Notpartofyourclub #

    I’m one westerner who doesn’t plan on joining your “club”. I don’t know how you could let something like that happen, unless you are getting some action yourself, except this experience appearently made you “emotional”. Sounds like you don’t like what she is doing. If my girl hurt me like that, the vacation would be over. I know you are thinking of her pleasure, but god, think of yourself a little too! Thai men are no better lovers than we are. Whatever he did to her, you should be able to do too. I have never been to Thailand but I know for a fact that if I ever go, my girl will be riding me the whole time. You just need more confidence.

    April 16, 2010 at 11:13
  8. John #

    Personally I don’t know what is wrong with you. From your story it seems got the raw deal. You get to watch a movie while your girlfriend fucks some thai loser. Would she be so open to you having sex with another woman? I feel so sorry for you. I don’t think I could stand it if my girl would rather have sex with some random stranger than the man shes supposed to love. I don’t care how good these thai guys are, don’t you go thinking they are better. If this is a statement of not being good enough in bed, let me tell you that you are as good as you want to be and you can compete with these thai “whores”.

    April 16, 2010 at 10:59
  9. ChuckWow #

    IMHO: One of two things should happen.

    1. You go home and never see her again as she obviosly does not give a f*** about you.


    2. You go out and enjoy the company of a Thai woman whenever your “girlfriend” has one of her trysts.

    Either way you need to grow a pair.

    February 20, 2010 at 15:05
  10. Long time we not hear from you i hope everything have worked out to the best 🙂

    February 2, 2010 at 14:14
  11. C #

    I do what I want do and not fell sorry. But I want stopping the story around. I like Rainer but these stops now.

    February 2, 2010 at 14:12
  12. I guess we all have our fetishes and niches as long as it does not hurt anyone.

    November 23, 2009 at 14:22
  13. Jeff #

    You’re a dickless loser. Any normal man would be completely emasculated by that and leave the girl immediately.

    People like you get walked on by everyone. It’s a real shame for you that you have no spine.

    November 23, 2009 at 10:56
  14. Rainer Hansen #

    …read this article by a guy who lived for a long time in Thailand about thai beach boys, how they ‘capture’ white girls for fun, sex and money. An excellent article which shows the truth!


    November 16, 2009 at 15:01
  15. Jeff #

    How can you possibly tolerate your loved one being with another man? How could she possibly let this other man make it look like she was his possession right in front of you?

    I think you really don’t like to stand up for yourself.

    October 4, 2009 at 23:50
  16. Tom #

    You should get your self a Thai girl, it is only fair. Hell you should be allowed to fool around a like. You should also consider what kind of harm this is doing to you physiologically. Did you tell your girl this made you depersed? You could be doing real harm to your self. I know that you don’t feel like you could find anyone better but you should consider it. Find someone who enjoys the things you do a does not make you feel like you can not satisfy her urges. Have you thought about how this would affect a family if had one with this woman fidelity is a big issue.

    October 2, 2009 at 14:12
  17. Rainer Hansen #

    Hi Danny,

    although your case is quite a different, hopefully your received my advice and it is a help to you.

    August 12, 2009 at 00:17
  18. Rainer Hansen #

    Hi Stef,

    let me encourage you again to post your experiences in this place. It does not need to be a long text. I think it will be helpful to show that probably quite a number of westeners go through the same experiences in Thailand as we did.

    August 12, 2009 at 00:15
  19. Danny Wu #

    Hi Rainer.
    Sorry it’s been quite a long time. I didn’t watch this post because I didn’t get any notification about the replies. Until today…

    Of course I would like to talk to you and my email is “danny1980vn@gmail.com”…

    Please write me if you are willing to share your experiences and thoughts with a friend…

    Thanks in advance!


    April 27, 2009 at 02:21
  20. Stefan #

    Hallo Rainer & Claudia,

    Sorry dass ich mich so lange nicht mehr gemeldet habe (ich habe eine “herausfordernde” Zeit hinter mir). Ich hoffe es geht euch gut und ich gratuliere euch besser spät als nie ganz herzich zu eurer Verlobung! Ich bin gerne bereit, unseren anregenden Gedankenaustausch fortzusetzen.

    Liebe Grüsse,

    April 25, 2009 at 15:18
  21. Rainer Hansen #

    Hallo Danny,

    thanks for your (hopefully) serious reply. If you have any -serious- questions about this taboo-subject, do not hesitate to contact me.

    As you can probably imagine we received a lot of abusive replies in the past, mostly from male westeners, “disbelievers” or whatever. Some guys called her a whore and some chinese went even so far to promise us money for a photo of Claudia. That is also why we changed our e-mail address sometimes. I know I should have written my experience in a more “serious” news-style- way, but I was emotional and I am still, when imagining that an unknown 19 or 20 years old Thai guy came into my willing girlfriend in a Bangkok hotel. (Sorry for this strong words, but that is the most brutal way to say it, …not so nice words like “they dated” or whatever…) However, I did not regret that I went public with my experience. And believe me, there were endless discussion with my girl how all could have happened so quick. The good thing about it: No more hiding of secret desires. There are only very few people who deal with the subject of female sex tourism in Thailad in an objective way. There are even less westerners like the above Stef., who are willing to admit that they are “male victims”. (wifes/ girlfriends keeping a relationship but becoming customers of male prostitute simultaneously) He was one of the fiew, with whom I could exchange my thoughts and emotions as his girl went the same path. Like me he as finally accepted young asian males as occassional parnters for his wife. (He wrote me that a young thai approched his western girl while she was sunbathing in Phuket and he was out swimming in the ocean. The guy became a “good friend” of the couple and showed them the area…only to become her lover a few days later) As in my case: Very easy cash money and big fun for the young thai guy! The easy and big cash the young thai beach boys/ money boys can make with an interested white girl seems to be so tempting that they try everything to isolate her from her western partner…if the western guy is too weak, too nice, too polite….the greater the chance for the Thai competitor. Well, that is my theory and I cannot prove it.
    What was indeed different, is that Claudia approached Thai guys herself, in the beginning still hesitating and exploring, and it took her sometime until she found a suitable partner for her desires.

    Anyway, if you are interested please let me know your e-mail address. And please….no making us bad again.


    February 9, 2009 at 00:38
  22. admin #

    What kind of problems do you have? Thai girl with Thai boys or just western girl with Thai boys?

    January 20, 2009 at 21:27
  23. Danny Wu #

    Hi Rainer.
    Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I have some doubts and problems linked to this topic (gf and thai guys) and would like to talk to you. Can you provide me your email or can you write to mine?
    Thank you so much in advance.

    PS. This is a serious post. No bullshit nor fake…

    January 20, 2009 at 07:23
  24. Rainer Hansen #

    I think it might be helpful to any western man, who had to share his girl/wife with a young asian competitor. It might help more guys to overcome their fears of shame, ‘out’ themselves and thereby finally help to initiate a discussion on this taboo subject.

    July 9, 2008 at 19:12
  25. Stef #

    Thank you for your mail. You mean it would be helpful for me or you to post my experiences? I find it quite hard to write long texts……… 😉

    June 12, 2008 at 13:21
  26. Rainer Hansen #

    Hi S.

    it would be extremely helpful to publish your experiences like I did.
    Not many cuckolded westeners dare so far to out themselves, fearing to be ridiculed by thai men as well as by other westeners. White girls are prime targets for thai boys, some do it for money only, some only for fun, some for both. The desperate resistance of an unsecure western boyfriend, if any at all in an unusual tropic environment, is quickly ‘chocked’ by a resolute thai. The thai lover takes it all,…and worse: You cannot deny your girl enjoyed it!

    June 10, 2008 at 20:12
  27. S. #

    I had a similar experience. Maybe even pretty much the same. When I first went with my – decent – girlfriend to Thailand (Phuket) I could or would never have thought what would happen and that our relationship would be affected so much, that my life would change. I thought it would just be “another” holiday. But we too stay together and have no intention to split up.

    June 1, 2008 at 05:24
  28. Rainer Hansen #

    Claudia and I published our unusual experiences in Thailand under the wrong names Alex/Pauline some times ago, in order to find out, if there are any other farang boys of whom the girlfriends were “captured” by thai sex boys. NOT to be annoyed by comments like yours, which we unfortunately received a lot!
    Our real names became public anyway, so that is why I answer you openly: As you can read in my story my girlfriend is very aware of the risk of becoming pregnant from her thai lover or getting a disease! She will NEVER have sex with a thai boy without using condoms! My girlfriend was honest to me in regard to her sexual preferences and enjoyed sex with a young thai boy…he was young, aggressive and dominant and did not give away the chance of good pay and good sex with my girl. She enjoyed it, and he profited anyway. But today -I- am still happy still together with my girlfriend and we plan to get engaged. She has no reason to cheat me in regard to the use of condoms.

    How many young farang men CHEAT there girlfriend in Europe with thai girls, using no condoms…?

    February 6, 2008 at 20:05
  29. ron #

    Aids. Syph. Gon…etc etc etc

    October 16, 2007 at 18:49